[ Family ] Open Question : How should I respond when my _ mother praises my cousin Jason for being so rich in front of me (Jason is nowhere near us when she does this)?

Anyone watching my mother speak can tell that she is obviously saying that Jason deserves to be rich & I deserve to have financial problems. (I’m an adult living on my own & unfortunately I have to come to family gatherings. If I avoided these family gatherings it would be harder to keep up my…